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<\/figure>\n\n\n\nCommunication is one of the most important things in any relationship. Without communication, you’re going to end up with two very unhappy people who don’t understand each other at all. So if you notice your communication starting to go downhill, here are some tips for how you can fix that before it’s too late.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
2) Avoid criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n The key to improving communication in any relationship is the avoidance of the four Cs: criticism, contempt, defensiveness and stonewalling. 3) Be an active listener<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Active listening is the single most important factor that you can do if you want to improve your communication with someone. When you listen actively, you are giving your undivided attention and following what the other person is saying by responding appropriately. Active listening shows that you care about what the other person has to say and makes them feel like they have been heard.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 4) Seek to understand your partner’s perspective<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n A lot of the time, disagreements and misunderstandings happen because we’re not seeking to understand our partner’s perspective. If you can’t find common ground, you may have more serious problems. Seek to understand your partner’s perspective by asking them questions about why they think or feel a certain way. You could even try writing down what they said so you can refer back later if needed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 5) Respect your partner’s feelings and needs<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n A good relationship is built on mutual respect and understanding. If you want your partner to feel respected, take the time to listen, and try not interrupting them when they speak. Likewise, if you need more space or privacy than usual, don’t be afraid to ask for what you need. This will help ensure that both partners are getting their needs met.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 6) Give your partner the benefit of the doubt<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n It is important that you give your partner the benefit of the doubt, even if they are not always upfront with you. This can be difficult because of how painful it can be to be lied to and deceived by someone who was supposed to love and care for you unconditionally. But by doing this, you may just save your relationship before it is too late.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 7) Compromise<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n In every relationship, there will be times when one person is making sacrifices for the other. Compromise is important because it allows both people to feel like they are being heard and that their needs are being met. It also ensures that each person feels respected by the other. Remember that compromise can come in many forms: time spent together, finances, where you live, parenting styles, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 8) Take breaks when needed<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Breaking up is hard, but when you’ve grown apart, sometimes the best option is to end things before they get worse. One way to make breaking up easier on everyone involved is by taking breaks. This gives you time to heal and find your own space when you’re going through a tough break-up or divorce. You can also use these periods as a time where your soon-to-be ex can heal and find his or her own space without having to worry about being around you all the time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 9) Forgive<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Sometimes when you’re mad at your partner, the best thing you can do is forgive. Forgive and forget, or for the sake of the relationship. If you are holding on to anger towards them, it will only make things worse. You need to find a way for the two of you to come together and get past any issues that are causing tension in your relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 10) Appreciate your partner<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Communication is key in any relationship, but sometimes, we don’t realize how important it is until something goes wrong. If you want your relationship to last, then make sure you are communicating with each other on a regular basis and not just about the big stuff. It may sound like common sense, but you would be surprised how many people aren’t able to do this.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Communication is an essential ingredient in any successful relationship, and it\u2019s important to work on improving this aspect of your life with your partner before it\u2019s too late. 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